Greer Grammer Reflects on Emotional Moment With Father Kelsey Grammer

Key Points

• Actress Greer Grammer, 33, opened up about her relationship with father Kelsey Grammer on the Pretty Basic Podcast.
• Kelsey and Greer’s mother split when she was four; they reconnected during her teenage years.
• Greer revealed the “meanest thing” her father ever said was suggesting she might be better off without his last name.
• Despite past estrangement, the two now share a positive relationship.
• Kelsey, 70, recently welcomed his eighth child with wife Kayte Walsh.

Greer Grammer Opens Up on Podcast

Actress Greer Grammer has spoken candidly about her relationship with her father, Emmy-winning actor Kelsey Grammer, during a recent appearance on the Pretty Basic Podcast.

Greer recalled their reconnection as teenagers after years of estrangement, sharing both the challenges and eventual healing in their relationship.

Estrangement and Reconnection

Kelsey Grammer split from Greer’s mother when she was just four years old. The two reconnected years later when Kelsey approached her during a community service event.

“He came up to me and said, ‘Are you Greer?’ And I said, ‘Yes, I am.’ Then he went, ‘I’m…’ And I was like, ‘I know who you are. Duh,’” Greer recalled. Their first lunch together marked the beginning of rebuilding their bond.

The ‘Meanest Thing’ He Said

Greer revealed that one of the most painful moments came when her father admitted he had once suggested she might be better off without his last name.

“I think I was like 19 when he told me that and I started sobbing,” she said. “To me that was the meanest thing you could ever say to somebody.”

Despite the hurt, Greer acknowledged that her father’s reasoning was “fair,” as he believed it might have made her childhood easier given his absence.

Kelsey Grammer’s Family Life

In October 2025, Kelsey welcomed his eighth child with wife Kayte Walsh, with whom he has been married for 14 years. The couple already share three children: Faith, 12, Gabriel, 10, and James, 8.

Kelsey is also father to Spencer, 41, from his first marriage to Doreen Alderman; Greer, 33; and Mason, 23, and Jude, 20, from his marriage to Camille Grammer.

Parenting Reflections

Earlier this year, Kelsey admitted to PEOPLE that he had “neglected” some of his older children at times. “I have neglected a couple of the kids in my life, especially the first two,” he said. “I’m trying to make up for a little of it now. I’m still their dad, so you can always have a chance to show up.”

He added that he is more specific with his younger children about expectations, encouraging them to focus on studies and responsibility.

What Happens Next?

While Greer and Kelsey’s relationship has endured difficult moments, both have expressed that they now share a stronger bond. As Kelsey continues to balance his career and fatherhood, his reflections suggest an ongoing effort to remain present in the lives of all his children.